The Housewife's Lament #1

This past summer, the first summer of quarantine, I was standing at the sink thinking depressing thoughts during a depressing year. It was the middle of August, and I was taking a "vacation" in quotes, because there was no place to go, and nothing safe to do. Being quarantined, working from home, and not seeing friends or family for months was beginning to take an emotional toll that I was rapidly becoming unable to pay. I could feel misery and depression skulking around as I noticed the days growing shorter. "But you are fortunate" came the unbidden, and surprising, thought. One moment I was sinking into a funk, and the next moment that thought was simply there. Shiny, solid, real, and undeniable. I examined it in my mind, while my hands scrubbed the remains of my morning tea from my cup. "Not to be cliché," it said, "but your blessings are numerous, and you know how to count." And I sat with that a moment while running a soapy dish under the tap. It was true, and right. I thought about being fortunate that I still had a job, and one that let me work remotely. I thought about the fact that I had a house, and wasn't hurting for food. And I thought about all of the couples and families unintentionally confined to close quarters. Children at home, Zoom calls for work, angry spouses on a short fuse, and pets literally crying out for attention. I thought about how a situation like that could bring so much stress to bear on an already fractured relationship to destroy it beyond repair. And my mind kept turning to thoughts of women in unhappy relationships, in an untenable situation with disease plaguing the outside world, but living in a space that is rotting from within. That was the inspiration for the first poem, intended to be from the point of view of that woman, literally trapped in both a house and a relationship. 


Our lives are like our dishes,
chipped and broken 
and glued back together.
Functional but not pretty.

The crack lines showing through like scars,
dirtied and left next to the sink
where the residue of experiences past
will stick and harden
and leave their marks.
 

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